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Your reaction may be something like "I'm not a terrorist! Teens, on the other hand, are at the mercy of their brain chemistry - they are effectively hardwired to act irresponsibly. Therefore, while the emotional experience of being spied upon is subjectively the same, the reaction thereto is not justifiable until the point where the teen can prove that he or she is responsible in cyberspace. As for the trust relationship between parent and teen, it will have to incorporate the parent's spying into the talks about online safety. You cannot expect to have a trust relationship with a child you are spying on behind their back.
Will they like it? But if you are not upfront about your spying, you are doing a moral wrong. That is why you cannot use a recording in court as an adult! The act of observing online behaviour wil necessarily change that behaviour, and in so doing, render that behaviour the object of scrutiny for the observed as well as the observer. This is a good thing, because it cultivates an ongoing awareness in the digital realm.
Avoidance and circumvention of spy measures can be expected, perhaps even welcomed. In today's online world, privacy measures and the avoidance of prying eyes is a life skill. It is interesting that "spying" was the word used to describe a parent's natural instinct, concern and responsibility to teach and protect their children from danger. The very choice of the word "spying" conjures up images and visceral emotional responses for almost everyone, especially in today' world of high-tech espionage and pinpointing our geographical location by our cell phones.
I've created questionnaires in my past business experiences and I know that the way you ask your question--the words you use--make all the difference. My hypothesis--that respondents who answer "no" to the first question, would answer "yes" to the second. BTW, I say yes. Parents should monitor their children's use of social media sites, and if you want to call me a "spy," my shoulders are big enough to carry it. Concern and responsibility and spying are not the same things..
Let's not begin to twist things around. I do think that perhaps the term "spying" speaks more to an overzealous approach to monitoring or an attempt to control any and all access to internet usage. I do feel that too much is better than none at all, but that attempts to be overly controlling will result in a breakdown of trust between parent and child. I have three grown, well adjusted mature children. The rules were simple. If they ate at our table, their mother and I were entitled to know about all their activities Children are their parent's responsibility and must be closely supervised until their judgement has developed 40 yrs maybe?
Respect is an important two way street and the kids must be treated with respect and consideration, but someone must set the guidelines. Do you like the NSA spying?
Neither do your children! If your family life was good, their approach to life will be good! If you wonder, I have been through 3 generations. PS there seems to be more than one of me. Sorry about the screaming, but I taught my children my values. No I don't need to monitor them, I trust them. I don't think they will betray it. How do we teach our children about privacy if we SPY on them? Are we the NSA that needs to track everyone in our nation?
I raised my children the best I knew how. How many of you had parents who, when you were kids, called up your friends' parents when you visited them and asked them to relay every detail of what you did, what you said, to whom you spoke? Did they perhaps get a little brother to eavesdrop on your conversations and call back every time you might have said something that they considered inappropriate?
Kids are innately good, and the vast majority don't need you abusing the technology available to you, so you can be the "helicopter parent", buzzing around everything they do. However, if they abuse the privileges given to them, monitoring software could be a good step to take. A couple of useful guidelines: Spying is what happens if you don't feel yourself up to handling the competition honestly. Guarding is watching on behalf of someone not able to watch. A good guard makes you feel safe. A good spy doesn't, even one on your own side. A guard may stop you climbing secretly over your back fence, knowing your spouse might shoot you.
A spy will just make sure to stay out of the line of fire. You spy on your kids to make yourself look like a good parent. You guard your kids because you want them to be safe. In case you are wondering - kids know the difference. I'm neither a rent-a-cop nor a jailer, I am a parent. The case for spying on children should parallel the case for spying on adults, IMO. As children demonstrate the ability to behave maturely and follow both parental and societal rules, they should be given more freedom and more privacy.
But when they display poor judgment and irresponsible behavior, their freedom and responsibility should be scaled back accordingly. As parents, obviously we don't need "warrants" to monitor our children's activities I guess nowadays, the Government doesn't seem to need warrants, either , but if we don't exercise good judgment ourselves, we will only encourage our children to sneak around behind our backs, just as overly intrusive Government snooping drives even law-abiding citizens underground.
We should teach our kids that if they prove themselves trustworthy, we will trust them, but if they don't, we won't. It is one of your many jobs as a parent to protect your children from harm as much as possible. A juvie cop once told me, and this was when my son, who is now 40 was a pre-teen, that you raise your kids until they hit 12 or 13, and from that point their friends raise them.
He went on to say that, no matter what you do, you can't pick their friends. All you can do until they smarten up is hang on, and limit the damage as much as possible. You cannot control all the risk factors all the time. You can, however, control a great many of them, and you should.
If you don't, you're shortchanging your children. What that probation officer told you was a cowardice thing. You and him are both making up excuses for your laziness. Trusting kids is not a simple thing. Since doing your job will reflect on how much you will be able to trust them.
You are, with all due respect, absolutely incorrect. I was a registered nurse working in trauma center emergency rooms on the California coast, seeing every single day the consequences of people blindly trusting their children. I decided early on that I would never make a fellow nurse tell me my child was dead, as I was forced to do on more than one occasion, or tell them that their child was injured in the process of causing the death of other people whether by accident or design.
You probably have no frame of reference that is remotely close to mine, because if you did you would not be nearly as self righteous as you are now. Spying on your kids is NOT parenting; it denotes a lack of parenting skills. It means that YOU are not doing real parenting, which is talking with your kids; you have betrayed their trust and abused it. It has never been easy raising kids - just ask your parents - but unless they show you that they cannot be trusted and again, I feel that this is a failing on your part you should give them the benefit of the doubt.
You are the adult, you are supposedly the one in control, so "nobless oblige". For you folks that think your kids need to "earn" your trust, God, I feel sorry for your kids. It is YOUR responsibility to teach them to be honest, to be open and to know the difference between right and wrong. YOUR failure is their failure, not vice-versa. First of, I won't use the term "spying". It's a horsepucky term as far as I'm concerned. Completely agree with Joel L. As a parent of 11 kids and now grandfather, I have a honor, privilege AND duty to raise my children, which includes instructing and protecting them until they are old enough to leave the home and start independent lives of their own.
My object as a parent, is to help them gain the skills and habits to be productive members of society and extraordinary human beings. That means I have access to every This is not up for debate, nor is it negotiable, regardless of popular opinion or government mandate. Do I have to 'monitor' them?
Some of the time, and some more than others. We have build a large degree of trust and confidence, because they know what I'm doing and why. However, I also have a solid belief in agency. I "ask" my children to do things, explaining why--NOT "because I said so. If that trust and my expectations are broken by that child's actions, then consequences follow. Our society is rotting with a misconception that children have "rights" to certain freedoms before they reach adulthood.
Many parents lack the skills to raise children in such a society--while media and the social decline of morals and attacks on the family structure make it near impossible to be what I would call a "proper parent. The basis, IMO, is on the parenting styles of families. Is there a reason a parent feels they should monitor their child closely? Only that parent knows or can make that decision, based on the character of that child.
I wish that I had grown up in a home that was based on the principles you spoke of. Perhaps, I would have made better choices.
Privacy is something that only people that live in big cities have an expectation of. If you grew up in a small town, then you're very aware that everyone knows everyone else's business. As we get a larger population, its not really that we gain privacy, we gain anonymity. It's the largest public forum in the world. E-mails are available to whoever has the savvy to acquire them.
Images are copied and photoshopped, then reposted, sometimes to the detriment of the person whose head or face ends up on the final product. Potential employers check out an applicant's web presence to see if they're a good fit for their company. I used to proudly say that I spied on my kids, but is it spying? I told them that I was going to be checking up on them -- just like I did in the real world. One of the primary responsibilities of parenting is to prepare your kids to go out into the world on their own.
Watching over them to protect them only goes so far, then they need to be taught to protect themselves. Justin is right that you can't control them on or offline. They will make their own choices. It's being awre of the choices that they've made that helps in the parenting process, so they can be taught a better way through the dangers of life in both the real and virtual realities of this life. There is no way to spy on your own kids.
Until the age of 18, they have no legal autonomy and they are the responsibility of the parent. Do children actually have a right to privacy or is it just a social stigma that children outright deserve it? No, children ought to EARN the privilege of privacy by demonstrating maturity. How bout being a responsible adult and doing your job and by trusting them instead of taking the short cut by wrapping them in a bubble.. I have seen titties horror violent films since I was 5. I am was born and raised in Russia until I was 7, the culture is slightly different but to make the story short I came out to be a pretty decnt human being.
The key is to have meaningful conversations with your children. Too many narcissistic Americans not giving attention to their children. Why spy on kids? There is premium package which you can order, from them. When your kid will do some nasty stuff on internet they will send you SMS on your phone you don't need to provide the phone number, because they already know it. If you think about it, kids gave parenting a bad vibe, specially when they tell you you're spying on their personal life.
Not spying just watching after you and unless your roof over your head has your name on it, I'll parent all activities you do. Don't like it, the door is wide open when you've got as much experience as I do on life to take care of yourself and make right decisions. I think that you should have a access level based on age, one access for all that is defined a certain age by law is allowed to access the web. We do have all adult content websites ask for age verification, we have spying software, etc Why bother with that.
If your kids want to bypass that, they will. They do in school or home any way, no matter how you protect them from the www. Specially now that they can just take a walk to McD with free wifi and access it plus have something to eat. Think of it this way, you can't go to a store and buy a cheap beer without getting carded, clubs will card you, events will card you, even at a damn dinner you will get carded.
However it be harder to get that access if everyone had a law to follow. Maybe not a law, it's a strong word, but regulations on who can access the net in general at what age. It's an age where you can take your close off and no one complains, well some will do because you just shouldn't do that, without very good reason.
I agree with person above, kids hide, trick, and do all kinda of things if something is not allowed, but they also give up quicker if right away it looks impossible to do. I see someone coming out with a world wide internet access verification gadget that would card you before you can access the internet. Why not, after all, you get a license to drive but it also stands for a lot other things such as giving you ID that represent you, your age, your access to certain world items you normally before shouldn't have with a good reason.
It's a big world, it's nice but it's also evil. My kids won't get access period until they are mature enough to understand what Internet is. It can make you famous but it can ruin you too. It can strengthen you but it can also break you. If this doesn't make sense, ask yourself this, why wont you put your 3 year old son or 13 year old girl behind the wheel and let them drive? If you did they wouldn't get far because their mind isn't mature enough to think through more then one, two or three tops thoughts at a time. I'm not saying kids are dumb or anything but my 8 year old would be so excited each time she drove, she would forget to stop at the first stop.
That doesn't make her dumb it's just how mature her thought process is. Same with the internet. Kids will share something that will hurt them, be that a naked photo, but that's because they didn't think well enough about how bad it can get.
Words hurt too, even as adults we say the wrong stuff which is another thing of its own if I call you this or that and you kill yourself, then you've got issues. Kids on Facebook will do this to other kids with one though at the time. It's either funny or I'm just angry or I hate that kid. However they won't stop until something happens, when it does happen that's when they think otherwise. Little to late many times.
At a certain age you are expected to be responsible for your actions. Expected that as an adult of this age, you thought of all the options. Thought about the wrongs and rights of your action. Its why your not old enough to be old enough, until your old enough. I have watched titties violent horror movies since I was years old and i came out just fine Trying to stick our kids in a bubble is not going to help since the adult isn't doing his or her job by having meaningful talks with their kids instead of taking the easy way out n sticking them In a bubble wrap.
As my dear high school biology teacher used to say, "Where there are two extremes, the truth is somewhere in the middle. Parents should also consider that every child is different, even amongst their own children.
If they were all the same, we would have had a manual done by now on how to parent them and the world would sing in harmony. Doing any of this completely covertly really undermines any trust between you and your child. I'm not concerned if a child has a right to privacy, exactly, because I don't believe that is an absolute and unalienable right for children.
I base that on the fact that rights are contingent upon the person maintaining responsibilities that the right requires.
A child's ability to respect the right of privacy fluctuates throughout their adolescence. A parent needs to respond accordingly. Cultivating a relationship of honesty and communication is definitely key, but a very tricky thing to actually accomplish. Yet, never stop trying and learning different ways to foster the communication. We've been really lucky with our kids that way, but it can change dramatically from day to day and for months on end.